Oh dear...my baby's birthday is coming soon...any creative ideas?
Please flood my email if you do, rewards will be given.
Email :fiyawn@yahoo.com.sg
I did my part too man, not just asking for free ideas..haha
I have actually booked for a night stay at Pan Pacific's suite which will cost me almost $500 a night. Baby says "NO"! waste $.
Singapore nothing to do, the next fun thing is the kiddy ride on the Singapore Flyer at 6.30pm. Detailed planning, crack my small head to think of when will be a good time to be on top of the island. Not too hot and not too dark. 6.30pm seems to be a great time man, the sun started to set. Chop that "timing" already.
Ideas needed on the dining place to go.. :) Start flooding in now... :)
Friday, May 23, 2008
Wednesday, May 21, 2008
1900-stress@work
What should I do now? What should I do now? When I have decided on my decision, my boss told me today that he will be sending me to a 2 days course in NUS on contract in June.
What should I do now? Can I dial any helpline to seek for help? 1900-stress@work perhaps?
Is there any helpline for stressful working executives?
Maybe I should start one. Please dial my hp number helpline if you need me to lend you my ears. Start dialing.
What should I do now? Can I dial any helpline to seek for help? 1900-stress@work perhaps?
Is there any helpline for stressful working executives?
Maybe I should start one. Please dial my hp number helpline if you need me to lend you my ears. Start dialing.
Friday, May 16, 2008
Shhhhhhh.....baby's world
It's a new start...cooked dinner for my baby, knew he is so depressed and moody, thus decided to prepare dinner for him. Although it's a simple one, can tell from his face, he truely appreciate it.Guess what I had prepared...liang tou fu soup with tons of vegetables and black pepper chicken and of course rice.That's all. I think that's all I can cook!!! haha.
After finishing dinner, baby wants to go "tour around" at compasspoint(To me, there's nothing at compasspoint that interest me except B1 & level 1 those selling finger food and munching stuff, but since he wants to go "shan shan xin", decided to tack along. Went to shop for electronic stuff, trying to see the market rate and went cold storage to replenish his "green tea" stock. It has been a rewarding session with him to talk about how we should go about planning for our own flat, when to start sourcing, how much to save to reach our goals before our flat comes.
He is moody at first but after talking so much about our new flat, he gets lighten up and pretty excited. Now he is engrossed playing psp...nothing can stop him, NOT even me....Poor me.
But I can bear to stop him, as this is the only time that reflects his child like look and forgets about the survival battle...shhhh...let him continue till he notice my existence. :)
After finishing dinner, baby wants to go "tour around" at compasspoint(To me, there's nothing at compasspoint that interest me except B1 & level 1 those selling finger food and munching stuff, but since he wants to go "shan shan xin", decided to tack along. Went to shop for electronic stuff, trying to see the market rate and went cold storage to replenish his "green tea" stock. It has been a rewarding session with him to talk about how we should go about planning for our own flat, when to start sourcing, how much to save to reach our goals before our flat comes.
He is moody at first but after talking so much about our new flat, he gets lighten up and pretty excited. Now he is engrossed playing psp...nothing can stop him, NOT even me....Poor me.
But I can bear to stop him, as this is the only time that reflects his child like look and forgets about the survival battle...shhhh...let him continue till he notice my existence. :)
Tuesday, May 6, 2008
Baby's free smiles
Sometimes I feel like screaming top of my lungs...NOT ENOUGH!!! Not enough of sleep, not enough of time, not enough of money, haha. I suppose these are the norms for working executive like us.
The time I treasure most is traveling.Surpise??!! This is because during this time, baby and I can spend the time chatting on what has happened during the day, how each of us is doing, in short, we are indirectly "forced" to communicate. I see that a good thing. Most of our time are spent traveling thus ended up the rest of the night time are dedicated to watching tv, chatting with our family members, playing with our dogs, surfing net and having some time for ourselves. Just like now, he is engrossed watching soccer and I am busy blogging.
To me, the traveling time are the most precious time and it brings me the motivation to start my hectic day ahead again. Sometimes when the work is overwhelming with tons of deadlines to meet, the look of my baby tells me why I am here working so hard. His joval character, never ending jokes, tiny tweety eyes, silly tricks and of course his smile just instantly melt my heart, melt away the troubles and stress that I have. Thanks baby, to do your part, you just have to continue smiling.
The time I treasure most is traveling.Surpise??!! This is because during this time, baby and I can spend the time chatting on what has happened during the day, how each of us is doing, in short, we are indirectly "forced" to communicate. I see that a good thing. Most of our time are spent traveling thus ended up the rest of the night time are dedicated to watching tv, chatting with our family members, playing with our dogs, surfing net and having some time for ourselves. Just like now, he is engrossed watching soccer and I am busy blogging.
To me, the traveling time are the most precious time and it brings me the motivation to start my hectic day ahead again. Sometimes when the work is overwhelming with tons of deadlines to meet, the look of my baby tells me why I am here working so hard. His joval character, never ending jokes, tiny tweety eyes, silly tricks and of course his smile just instantly melt my heart, melt away the troubles and stress that I have. Thanks baby, to do your part, you just have to continue smiling.
Sunday, May 4, 2008
Rabbit eyes
Not really keen to talk about unhappy things that happen today. To me, there is no point dwelling over it again and again, so see no point in drafting it here.
The previous blog was written by my baby, I know, in his heart the wound is still fresh. No matter how long time may have passed, baby is still vulnerable and has yet to recover. Being with my baby these few months, makes me realize he is a family man that treats his family especially his mum really well and I know he will be a good daddy to my kids in the future. I love and respect him as my husband, although at times we have quarrels revolving his family and mine.
Yes, now I agree, marriage comes as a package together with the family. We will have to accept that we come from different background, culture and up-bringing. Certainly all these will take time for us to realize and be willing to accept the differences.
The previous blog was written by my baby, I know, in his heart the wound is still fresh. No matter how long time may have passed, baby is still vulnerable and has yet to recover. Being with my baby these few months, makes me realize he is a family man that treats his family especially his mum really well and I know he will be a good daddy to my kids in the future. I love and respect him as my husband, although at times we have quarrels revolving his family and mine.
Yes, now I agree, marriage comes as a package together with the family. We will have to accept that we come from different background, culture and up-bringing. Certainly all these will take time for us to realize and be willing to accept the differences.
Friday, May 2, 2008
Dad! I miss you dearly
After a game with my family-in-law, my wife and I watched the ghost show on channel 8. The show is about a father who killed her own daughter and suffered from mental depression due to the rising living standard in Hong Kong. Despite the family is very poor, this father actually gave HKD12 in exchange for his daughter’s favorite beef rice. The catch here is, the dad has only a total of HKD18. This scene between the father and the daughter reminded of the time when I was with my dad.
I used to be a rebellious son who always go against my dad and blame him for not taking care of the family. He loved to gamble and spend most of his time at the illegal gamble den. As for us, we will spend our time loitering around the area, waiting for him to finish his game. If he lost money, he tends to drive his car very fast and scared our wits out.
That is one of the things that I hated most.
But after he passed away, I realized a lot of things that my dad did for me. When I was having my national service, we had dinner and will drive me to my camp. Before alighting me in front of the guardhouse, he will give me $50 and asked me to spend it wisely. I simply just take it from him and hurried into my camp. This touches my heart even till today as I got to know that my dad had only $80 at that time when he handed me the $50.
On 24th June 2004, my mum called me and said that my father suffer from a heart attack. My heart sank. All my years of anger and hatred just disappeared in that moment. I don’t feel angry anymore and I don’t hate him anymore. Everything just vanished when I saw him fighting for his life. Suddenly, I had a sinking feeling inside my heart. On 14th March 2005, my father passed away.
On the funeral day, my mum told me how much my dad loved us. No matter how tough life is, he will always give us the best. “No matter what, I’m still part of his flesh”
Dad! No matter where you go, I still miss you a lot.
I used to be a rebellious son who always go against my dad and blame him for not taking care of the family. He loved to gamble and spend most of his time at the illegal gamble den. As for us, we will spend our time loitering around the area, waiting for him to finish his game. If he lost money, he tends to drive his car very fast and scared our wits out.
That is one of the things that I hated most.
But after he passed away, I realized a lot of things that my dad did for me. When I was having my national service, we had dinner and will drive me to my camp. Before alighting me in front of the guardhouse, he will give me $50 and asked me to spend it wisely. I simply just take it from him and hurried into my camp. This touches my heart even till today as I got to know that my dad had only $80 at that time when he handed me the $50.
On 24th June 2004, my mum called me and said that my father suffer from a heart attack. My heart sank. All my years of anger and hatred just disappeared in that moment. I don’t feel angry anymore and I don’t hate him anymore. Everything just vanished when I saw him fighting for his life. Suddenly, I had a sinking feeling inside my heart. On 14th March 2005, my father passed away.
On the funeral day, my mum told me how much my dad loved us. No matter how tough life is, he will always give us the best. “No matter what, I’m still part of his flesh”
Dad! No matter where you go, I still miss you a lot.
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