"New" Proposal

This is our"new" pair of rings that my baby bought for us...don't ask me why.haha, is a secret between us! The surprising thing is he "re-prosposed" last night by kneeling down, asking if I would marry him. It was hilarious, I thought we are married already. Anyway, a good surprise for me!I was moved!Although it's not a very expensive ring with diamonds all around it but it's the thought and gesture that counts! I love the design, so unique!























We got married knowing each other barely for 10 months(btw, we are from the same secondary school for 5 years but we wasn't that close last time) and the 1st 2 months being together we knew we are made for each other...we were making plans back then to get married in year 2008 and in Mar 2008 we vow to love each other for life...and our life as "married" status started. Our married life is not smooth sailing but each obstacles definitely makes our relationship stronger.

We realise a marriage will not work just because you think it will work, you have to put in effort to make it work! Back to the three things we believe is essential...Trust, communication and love! haha.

Point 1 & 2 are "poison" to a relationship, point 3 is something good to work on!
(1) Assumptions - > Don't make countless of assumptions, I realise that "I always think he reacted this way because I think he is doing something funny"...Don't think, unsure, sit down and have a good talk! I am really good at making countless of assumptions and getting angry because of countless assumptions...haha, silly!

(2) Narrow-minded -> A marriage does not concern only you and him! Not only you two parties, it comes with a package...his family and mine family...even my dogs and bunnie are counted in as "mine family"! If my dog fall sick, he has to be involved! It's that simple but it is definitely more complicated when it involves moving objects, I mean human beings in this case! Trying to get use to the requests coming from moving objects that has impact in our life. It's only a matter of time, I guess, getting used and being open minded! I do not want him to be a sandwich, that's the only simple reason that makes my brain "numb" and not thinking too much into it!haha

(3) Love his family & friends like the way you love your family and friends -> The reasoning here is simple. If I expect him to treat my family and my friends well, I would be expected to do the same thing too!

Thanks Baby for the wonderful and unforgettable experience.